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If you are new to our site, this blog is sort of a hodge podge of our ministry and family life, and whatever else God lays on my heart to share. The Home Page above will link you to our Sufficient Grace Ministries page. You can read more about the 501 (c) 3 non-profit organization and the outreaches of this ministry whose mission is to offer comfort and hope to grieving parents. The Blog button brings you to the page you are currently reading, featuring a variety of subjects...some ministry updates, some family news, and some biblically-based encouragement. The Walking With You page is a place for bereaved parents who have lost a baby or child to find encouragement and hope. It is an online support group created so that families would know they are not walking this path alone. On the Dreams of You Shop page, you can learn more about the products and services we offer, place an order, or sponsor a family. The Encouraging Women blog is a work in progress. There, we hope to offer biblically-based encouragement to all women. The Resource page has been newly updated with a list of resources that are helpful for grieving parents. Our blogroll is also located on this page. Thank you so much for visiting our site. Blessings to you...

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

One Year Blogiversary and a Giveaway

Today is my one year blogiversary! I wanted to post something really great and profound about what blogging has meant to me and how much I appreciate this amazing community. But, the truth is...I'm so tired that the words are blurring on the page as I type. So, I'm not really sure if anything of value will come out right now.

The thing is, I love words. We have shared a love affair for as long as I can remember. Love to read them, to speak them, and most of all...to write them. I love to learn new words, and to string them together in a beautiful flow of thought. (That's the goal anyway!)I get really excited when I hear my children using a diverse vocabulary. Today, in Wal-Mart (in the middle of a showdown over a Transformer toy that did not come home with us!) James said, "I'm going to be so glum today...for the rest of this day I will be glum." Even in the midst of my annoyance over his behavior, I had to smile at his glorious use of the word glum.

I have been given many words. They sort of ooze from me. I was voted "most talkative" in high school (that hasn't really changed, my IRL friends can attest), was recommended for the National Speech and Drama Award and adored Advanced Composition. If only all the classes were Advanced Composition. Who needs math anyway? I remember riding the school bus and dreamily wondering if I would be able to achieve my dream of becoming a writer one day. (In addition to my dreams of being an actress or maybe a singer...there were certainly options in dreamland!)

Many of those dreams were set aside for new dreams, as I became a young wife and mother. And, it was certainly a worthy trade. The words, however never left. And, in time, the Lord entered my heart and began to weave a story the likes of which I had never imagined. It was actually a story that began long before. You know, the funny thing about the tapestry He weaves in our lives (and another on the long list of things I love about the way God works!) is that He doesn't waste anything. He weaves it all together...the good, the bad, the ugly, the desires of our heart, our abilities, our personalities, our hopes, our dreams, our joys, our sorrows, everything that makes us who we are. And, somehow what comes out is a beautiful masterpiece that brings Him pleasure and glory. He created each of us for a unique purpose. And He will use the special things that make us who we are to fulfill that purpose. Isn't that amazing? You are who you are for a reason. And He can use you...just as you are. You are beautiful to Him. You are His masterpiece. I love how He works!

O.K....I'm getting a little rambly (did I mention I like to make up words, too). So, I'll just skip to the point. About five years ago, I entered a little contest (at the prompting of my in real life friend, Lynette T.) hosted by Family Christian Stores. They wanted to put together an anthology of short stories that would encourage, inspire, and reveal God's hand in our lives. So, I wrote about my Faith, Grace, and Thomas...the most I had ever known of the love and grace of my Savior. And...my story was published (among several others of course)! It was so exciting. I know, it was just a little contest...and just a short story. But, the writer in me was blessed beyond words to see my name in print along with the other authors...in a book. And to know that others would know the story of my Faith, Grace, and Thomas. And...even more, that their lives would be used to bring comfort and hope by pointing others toward the Lord. What a gift.

It was the beginning of the idea God planted in my heart to write the Dreams of You Memory Book for grieving families to honor the lives of their babies...the beginning of Sufficient Grace Ministries, and all that has grown from those first steps. Someday (maybe soon) I hope to complete my own book, fully telling the story of His grace in our lives... to offer encouragement and hope to grieving families. And, for now, I am so blessed to write on this blog. To walk with you...and to find encouragement as you walk with me. You have no idea how your words encourage me to continue on when I grow weary. I have found so much love and support in blog land. And, truly...this blog family has blessed my soul.




So...I would like to celebrate this first year of blogging by giving away a copy of Encounters With God (the book containing my little short story on pg. 67). There are other inspiring stories throughout the book. Some are better than others, so if you read one that you don't like, keep reading. There are a variety of topics...all sharing an "encounter with God". To enter the giveaway, please leave a comment below. Followers get a second entry!

Also...just wanted to share that today is our sweet Thomas Patrick's birthday. He would be 11 years old today. I can't imagine the birthday parties in heaven...but I bet they are great fun! Happy Birthday sweet boy! We love you!

Oh...and one more thing for those participating in Walking With You...we are changing the topic for Walking With You this week. The topic will be Choosing the Names for our Babies...and the Meaning Behind their names instead of The Early Days of Grief. We will begin talking about grieving the following Thursday and will spend several weeks sharing different aspects of the grief process. Thanks so much to Shannon for suggesting the topic.

Love to all...and thanks so much for walking with me...flaws and all...

27 comments:

Debby@Just Breathe said...

I don't need to win anything. I just want to say congratulations on your first year. What you are doing is so wonderful and every woman who finds your blog is truly blessed by what you have to offer.

Trisha Larson said...

I am new to the blogging world so I'm not sure if I'm entering the right way. It's my first giveaway but I would love to read that book.

I can totally relate to what you wrote tonight. I felt led to write my blog and the words just flowed from me like never before. I fell in love with writing and have continued to do it the past month. I have found it very healing to put my emotions into tangible words and to have connected with so many wonderful people. Thank you for being one of them!

Trisha

Lisa said...

I love reading your blog :) you are a great writer :) God Blessyou and all you are doing for this ministry!

Lisa

Jenilee said...

Happy Blogiversary!! :) The book looks great and your post was beautiful. Writing is an amazing outlet and a great way to share what God is doing in and through us. and, learning new words is always fun. :)

Emmy said...

Walking with you has been a pleasure, so the thanks are mine. :)

Happy Birthday, Thomas!

Cheryl said...

Congrats on your first year. The book sounds really good. I would love to win it.

The Writer Chic said...

SO much to say...

First of all, this was a beautifully written post -- tired or not. ;)

Second, "rambly" is totally a word. I use it all the time. Go figure. I'm chatty, too.

Third, happy birthday, sweet Thomas.

Fourth, I'd love a copy of the book.

Fifth, I'm so excited that the Walking With You topic is different this week. I alrady wrote that post in May, so I can just link to it. I've been bummed that I'm not "participating" but I'm just not ready, you know?

Anyways, Kelly, you are such a blessing to me. Love you!

Dana said...

Happy Blogiversary!! Your blog is so well written it could be a book by itself. You are such an encouragement to so many people!

Holly said...

Happy 1 year Blogiversary!! And happy 11th Birthday to sweet Thomas!!

I like writing better than talking. I'm definitely a better listener so how about you talk and I can listen, ok? :)

I think it's so awesome you were able to write short story and have it published. I would love to read it. (And I'm a follower!)

Looking forward to Walking With You again! A great topic that was suggested.

Anonymous said...

I'm so happy you have this blog! It's such a great way to stay in touch. If I ever updated mine it would be even better. ;-)

Happy Birthday Thomas!

Jantine said...

I can see you like to write! Such a long blogging post even if you are tired. I wouldn't have been able to accomplish!
I didn't loose a child myself but several close friends have and I love to read your blog! God gives great ways to meat and blogging is one of them!

Kami said...

Oh Kelly I love your words too! They seem to always speak right to my heart and my life in the place that I am. They are nothing short of being inspired by God!

Thank you for being the wonderful woman that you are - and indeed a very happy birthday to your precious boy! I guarantee that God had one amazing celebration for him in Heaven!

The Dortenzos said...

Happy Birthday to your sweet boy!!! I can only imagine how big of a celebration he is having in heaven--WOW is the only word that comes with those images! Thanks for your beautiful words as always--tired or not--they were beautiful :)!! Sorry I didn't join in the walk last week--that is a rough one for me--one I wasn't even ready to type--but I thought alot about those decisions and days which is such an incredible part of healing--thank you for following God's lead in leading all of us in that process!!!

Shannon said...

Happy 11th Birthday, Thomas Patrick!

Happy Blogiversary to you, Kelly!

I'm interested in entering the drawing.

And thank you for creating this blog. It has helped me more than words can say.

MommyIvy said...

Congrats on a year! That book sounds interesting and will be a blessing to someone.

Jennifer Ross said...

Happy Birthday sweet Thomas!

Happy one year on your blog. You have done a wonderful...... beautiful job. You have touched my life, along with so many other woman. God Bless.

Love,
Jenny

Kathryn @ Expectant Hearts said...

Argh.. I just wrote a comment and lost it..

I"m excited for Thursday's Walk.. Great topic!!

How wonderful that you were able to write a "short story" about Faith & Grace and Thomas and have it published.. I so long for God to use our journey with Seth, I'm slightly envious!!

Oh, I"m a blog follower too. Happy Blogiversary!!

Caroline said...

Happy Birthday Thomas

I really enjoy reading your blog. I wish so much that I known there was something like this when I had my miscarriages but even now it still helps me.

Congrats on a year.
Caroline

Tonya said...

Congratulations on one year of blogging and Happy Birthday to Thomas! I have often wondered about birthdays in heaven...might the day they entered Heaven be celebrated instead of the day they were born on earth? Hmmmm. Makes me wonder!?!?!

Love,
Tonya

Veronica @ Luv My Quiver Full Of Arrows said...

I know it is no coincidence that you started your blog on Thomas' 10th birthday. Happy Birthday to the sweet little man and congrats on your 1 year, Kelly. You are such a blessing in countless ways... and your words have been a treasure for me.

So, was the rest of James' day glum afterall? That was cute.

xoxo, Veronica in CA
p.s. I got my super cute bow purse. THANKYOU!! I will post about it soon, but have been lagging b/c I may give it to a close friend and did not want her to read about it. God bless you.

Anchored By Hope said...

Congratulations on your first year! I wanted to say also, that I wish you and your family well on your son's birthday. We haven't faced Sammi's birthday yet, our first year will be September 5, but the Lord saw fit to have me look at that date in a new perspective. September 7 is my due date for Ruthie. God's blessings!

Joyeful said...

Happy Blogiversary to you!!

We are sooo much alike, Kelly!! A couple years ago I wrote about my love of words and I just might have to go dig it up and post it! : ) I love to make up my own words, too!! (And your little boy's use of the word "glum" is just too cute) On an old blog I used to post the words I would make up and their definitions--it was so much fun!

Hey, I have an idea--let's get together and write a silly dictionary ^_^ LoL!

Jess said...

Hi Kelly, I am new to your blog but have read so much and been deeply encouraged by God's hand in your life and your faith in Him through the hardship of loss. You have honored your children's memories in such awesome ways through this blog, your short story, and your ministry!

Kristin said...

Happy Blogiversary Kelly! And Happy Birthday to Thomas. I too love how everyone has a story that was written by God and none of our stories are the same. I love to read your thoughts and they always inspire and encourage me.

Tammy On the Go said...

Good news all around...so happy!

September said...

Happy Blogiversary!! ( A day late- sorry! oopss!)

I just caught up on reading some of my blogs, and I was so thrilled to see your were celebrating!
Congratulations to you!

I was so blessed by reading your blog today about your babies names. I have always enjoyed reading your words about Faith, Grace and Thomas.
All of our children have been named for special reasons ( meanings ) as well.
Your ministry to healing women is such a blessing.

Unknown said...

Happy 1 Year Blog Anniversary! I think it's too cute that the blog anniversary earned the name "blogiversary". :) Isn't that cute?

Goodness, you ARE a words girl! ha! Most talkative, Speech and Drama award...Advanced Composition? Whoa...I guess! ha!

Again, that's so cool that you were published in a Family Christian book. That's a great accomplishment! I still haven't purchased it, and it's not that it's that expensive! Ugh...that's just how my life is.

Well, I'm so glad you're here in Blog Zilla Land. You like that? :)

I have grown to love you and your precious, tender heart.

Your chum,
Lynnette